someone reached me with this message:
I’ve been in a dark fearful place feeling unloved and distrusting in my relationship with my lover and life in general- been processing a whole lot of pain that comes from way back. Feeling I can’t function and walk strong in this world without the protection and love of a significant other- looking for my absent father- looking for the unconditional and eternal, feeling without that I am nothing and can do nothing- then I thought of you, your strength and dedication to be true to yourself and love yourself and how you manage to do that with the trauma of having lost your parents…
I replied
Where do you feel it on your body?
this recurrent pain? this silent crying of your soul?
give it a name –
let’s call it Daphné
Talk to it- “I am here for you Daphné”
that’s what the past wounds want to hear for healing
It’s about re -parenting yourself
To heal the child in you to feel safe once for all
No one can reassure you apart from yourself
A woman bends
A girl breaks
The adult in you can take care of this
This strength that you are looking for
Is already in you
Accept your lack
Forgive yourself for feeling the lack
Give it a good smack ( a kiss or even a French kiss ;)on the cheek
Saying that you are here for Daphné
If Daphné is about missing your dad
Talk to your dad even if you can’t physically see him
Write him a letter
Read it out loud to a friend
This feeling you have might be from another entity in your past
And if it keeps coming back it’s because it needs healing
go for a family constellation
it will heal not only you but also your past, present and future
healing the souls of your ancestors and future 
grab your soul
and train for reiki level 1
keep shining
you are loved!
